I was sexually abused in my home by a family member. I just want to let people know that things are not as clean cut and set in astrology as it is written sometimes because things that are presented as the only possible, likely truth will make people will fear astrology and the people around them if they look into isolated aspects from small asteroids and planets alike. It seems like sexual abuse is an emotional theme that I am working with in this life. Since both Eros and Lilith are isolated energies buried deep in the unconcious, the erotic transformation which takes place upon their meeting is deep with raw and intuitive spiritual potency. Making people fear being in relationships over tiny aspects that do not have an incredibly high chance of playing out is not healing to others. This is not to say it would be better or even easier. In order to talk about an asteroid, one must isolate it. lol. The Nessus person brings abuse to the ASC/DSC person. on Dejanira and Nessus. Check out our 40+ page relationship astrology eBook! I appreciate your thoughts on these aspects but I am concerned when any astrologer singles out specific aspects and makes sweeping judgements about charts and how the energies in that chart will be made manifest. My dejanira is in opposition to his sun and without any other aspects. Any comments will help. The Lilith person might have trouble with issues surrounding desirability. It is opinion, not truth. Do you have any advice for me? Do you see what I mean. Can it be dangerous amiann? They are deceiving themselves, would be a better way to say it. What would you say about moon conjunct pluto in a composite chart. If that does not float your boat, feel free not to read. That mars/nessus of his is also square his moon/pluto. Most karmic astrology synastry reports dont take Chiron into account nearly enough. I suppose I should add that. And how would his Saturn conjunct her dejanira play out? Lets see. I think her NN is right on his 7th house axis for one. My mother has her Nessus conjunct my sun and she has it conjunct her own north node, and my Dejanira is conjunct her moon, and there has NEVER been any type of abuse. It took me a minute to think about the wounded bird types, but I think you might be right. If it has not of yet, it may be a new relationship. Two celestial bodies are in conjunction when they are very close to each other, often in the same sign but never more than 8 degrees apart. Because of where my Moon is at 2 56 Scorpio conjunct Pluto at 4 36 Scorpio in the 8th house the men around my age (Im 35);tend to have their Pluto conjunct my Moon/Pluto In my current relationship my boyfriend has Mars/Pluto conjunct my Moon/Pluto. , Not a sag actually, but a virgo with tons of leo in her chart, lol. Why dont you put up your chart in my Forum and ask your question again. Again, telling people to get out of or stay out of relationships with an aspect that you in particular think will cause them harm is not healing in any aspect of the word. Further, there is such a thing such as free will. Your posts are starting to scare me now Ami. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a. And what about Sun and Pluto contacts in synastry? Telling people that something will happen to them because of an aspect is what you in particular FEEL is going to happen, but that is not the truth. What I've read about Lilith makes it seem to me that she's sort of like the Feminine's Pluto with lots of primal sexual urges thrown in, so I'm sure she rooted herself comfortably into your already heavily Plutonic relationships. They may not be able to see what you are up to and you could use this for your gain. We talk about it often (3rd house moon overlay) its just a bit overwhelming sometimes like a sweet dream one moment, then an absolute nightmare. The Moon person feels comforted by the Sun person's energy and the Sun person feels like they can be vulnerable with the Moon person. I wonder what do you think it would happen when nessus conjuncts nessus in synastry. I often see this aspect in the charts of couples who have been married for many years. I reply to the comments out of order because I do it on the central comment form. crap. It may be off a few minutes and change things. You are very welcome, my Friend. It "wakes up those areas inside of us and causes us to express them sexually, free from the restrictions of reality. That is why I dont mince words. I wasnt abused as a child in any way. Lilith Synastry Sun and Lilith conjunct in the synastry chart When Sun person's Sun and Lilith person's Lilith combine, each person awakens the deep desire for individuality and creativity in each other. There are many past life synastry charts that dont show marriage through these 5 obvious aspects, but its clear from reading the whole chart that the pair had a significant relationship in a past life. It makes my day , What conjuncts the DSC, we disown and find in the partner. We have our arguments and I sometimes feel put down by him (and, to be fair, he feels the same way about me) and sometimes my self-esteem suffers. You, as the Pluto in the trine with his Sun and venus could kind of see through him lol, Thank you Amy for your reply We are both passionate, but luckily, by nature, not violent people thank God . This is a general rule, my Friend. Eros: Synastry Aspects . It can be done but it is rare that someone reaches that level of spiritual mastery. In Roman mythology, Eros was known as Cupid. They often indicate a desire to sexually conquer/arouse one another. Posts: 9778 From: Death Star . I just never have, not that it is not good. In our synastry chart we have moon trine pluto and mars square pluto. In this case Nessuus is retro in conjunction with the North node. M. % would be more ambient but felt imo Maria dear. I wonder if that would mean that he IS an abuser but couldnt abuse me ?? 12 degrees is WAY too much to be conj the ASC, my Friend. I do charts for the people who want them. It gives no leg room, and its fearful to people. He may have little sympathy for her weakness. Another asteroid that is dark is Dejanira. Not sure which one id prefer. Mars is the planet of passion, desire and sexual drive and Eros is the physical act of sex Re: Lilith conjunct . However, if you want me to help you to find Jesus, that is why I am here. Free Horoscopes charts, calculations Birth Natal Chart Online Calculator Ascendant, Rising Sign Calculator Astro Portrait: Sun, Moon, ASC Personal Daily Horoscope Transit Chart Calculator Secondary Progressions Solar Arc, Solar Return, Prognoses Synastry, Composite, Davison Chart Traditional Astrology Calculator Sidereal Astrology Calculator Draconic Astrology Calculator Various astrology . There are some other great planet aspects but I am very curious about the ones I listed. Eros is a spicy little asteroid who generates excitement in relationship astrology. Next, I have uncovered that in my Draconic Dejanira is 1 degree conjunct my natal Scorpio Moon. Eros and Venus in a synastry chart! My Dejanira is in 5 Sag, like his North Node. I remember the first time I discovered how to read a synastry chart; I worked with mine and my boyfriends for about 6 hours. Who is whom? Im not meaning to argue if it sounds like it, its just damaging for ignorant people to come find posts saying that bad asteroids are always going to play out no matter what they do because that leads them to believe that everything in astrology is linear and has only a small set of possibilities that people cannot escape. However, there is a flip side. I also have moon trine neptune, venus conjunction chiron snd more aspects to do with empathy. Nonetheless, your interpretation of dejanira and nessus is intriguing. I know this came off a bit more forward, but only because I want to make it clear that one persons feelings are not fact. Nessus and Dejanira do most certainly not mean abuse. What about this aspects? When Lilith and Mars team up in synastry, there's nothing they can't do. With mercury and Uranus in Scorpio. They have a very imaginative sex life. there is no contact in real life anymore but the connection via the sexual chakra (either sacral or root chakra ) is still there and very strong. I have my DEJA conjuncion JUNO in my house 6 I have not seen it fail in all of my chart work. Also, our vertexes are conjunct in the same degree. Thank you F for being here and for taking the time to comment.What do you mean exactly? This is based on experience and charts, as are all my theories. You example above is only if a woman has Dejanira conjunct a mans ASC, Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, Venus or NN, you will be his victim. Any feedback on the roles being reversed? Does it matter if he doesnt have pluto in aspect to my venus (mine is 19 Libra)? I am very genuine towards others and fairness is must priority in all circumstances including my own critic.hate violence and abuse and stand up against it. 8. It wasn't enough for me to have sex with him though. Astrology 101 Astrophilosophy 1.8K subscribers Subscribe 119 3K views 1 year ago Eros and Venus in. Chiron conjunct sun. The issue is telling people that are in healthy relationships or people that are around a couple in a healthy relationship, that those aspects will certainly play out no matter what. More about Synastry (relationship Astrology) Intermediate and advanced students of Astrology might enjoy our article, SoulMate . That is why I, affectionately, call them too hot not to cool down. There are certain aspects I see in these dark,nuclear passion relationships. Squares and oppositions between Saturn and Juno can speak to a difficult relationship in the past, and theres some potential for this difficulty to be repeated unless both people are committed to working through their issues and working on the relationship. Thanks SO much for your kind words. The Basic House Rulers23 Simple Steps for Beginners. 4) Conjunctions to the Axis/Angles = very strong bond. As such, Nessus seems out to be the abuser and Deja the victim. Thats weird. You can gather the tone of the marriage based on the planets involved and the sign that theyre in. Lilith, both Black Moon and Asteroid 1181, brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger, rejection and rage. Deep soul love, incredibly painful at times. I guess I was just worried in general, just in case :P. how about deja conjuct saturn 1 degree. ami, what would nessus trine dejanira in synastry indicate. All of astrology is neutral. I would put Moon/Pluto first in terms of super connection and passion and Venus/Pluto second. . If you want to ask about 2 aspects, I will try to answer but an answer on the whole relationship needs an entire chart reading. That`s very interesting information. Thanks! This is a difficult aspect, but the couple often meets in this life to try and heal the wound. Asteroids touching asteroids are not as powerful as asteroids touching persona; points on the chart such as the ASC, Moon, Sun, Venus etc. You both feel admiration for each other. Sun sextile/trine/conjunct Moon is often found in marriage synastry charts. Amazing emotional+sexual chemistry though there was some bumps in the way. Could you specify what you mean by abuse (subtle, verbal, violent etc.?)? What if a man has Dejanira conjunct a womans Sun? The conjunction is, in my opinion, the only aspect that clearly dictates a marriage between these specific people. That is what I was saying. I had this excerpt saved from somewhere on the internet, but don't have the original source. We are to take the blueprint that is given and then do what we want with it. I have to always be honest. She has never treated me as less than, and she is extremely giving. Obviously the hard ones, like by a square or an opposition, adding to the (possibly) destructive passion! My sun and deja are on his nn. what would the double wammy of sun and pluto look like? It is a true soul mate aspect, to me. I didn't eroticize his everyday actions. I still talk to him to this day and I honestly will never forget how magnetic this relationship was. I never heard of these asteroids, especially being linked to abusers and victims. Is this something that reliably and consistently is reflected in a variety of different charts? Click here for instructions on how to enable JavaScript in your browser. Saturn conj Mars in Scorpio could produce a kinky kind of thing. I know somebody whose Moon conjuncts his Dejanira (30 minutes). First of all Lilith is for . That is why it feels so life and death. I sense Saggi. Do you think the way it plays out ties into whatever our attitudes toward Eros/Lilith themes (erotic transformation, primal urges, etc) were to begin with? When the son grows up, he will likely be the abuser,too. Great primal connection with fighting lol. In this video we will discuss the aspects between #Sun and #Eros in a synastry chart in Mix - Eros and Sun in Synastry! Dark sexual relationship synastry top 5 | Signing. His ascendant is at 24 Virgo and has 0 Virgo in his 12th house. With asteroids, one must be an intrepid explorer because there is precious little PRACTICAL info out there. Eros/Pluto/Lilith together makes for one powerful combination. This is not a dark aspect, either. They may cause each other significant pain and strife, but God help any outsider who dares to point it out. . He may abuse her and it would be seen publicly. However, Moon/Pluto in conjunction does not have to turn bad. what would result from this? I wouldnt think my mars/Pluto semisextile is as strong though it can do damage. Thank you so much, Love. How do we honor Lilith in our lives? Have you tried? I have very wide-orbed Eros-Lilith contacts (not conjunctions) in my two last relationships (they are Eros, I'm Lilith), but both relationships were so 8th house-oriented and Plutonian that it's hard to tell where Lilith comes in. Well you may want to take advantage of their trust and innocence. And as far as I know theres a strong correlation between nessus and psychopaths/abusers. Hi Amiann I only didnt like that its being portrayed as complete truth that will always occur, when its definitely not the case. Ceres person appreciates this, as they typically focus more on caregiving than on their own inner desires. Oops, sorry Amiann. It makes sense when you consider how deeply Lilith desires to eat/destroy her loves mythologically.